Sunday, May 15, 2022

My 10 Most Memorable Sports Event Experiences

 I have been very fortunate to have a long and fulfilling career in sports video production in the largest market in America – the New York market.  As such, we’ve hosted a great number of major events in the area before and during my career, giving me opportunities I would never have had if I lived in, say, Tulsa, Oklahoma.  I have also traveled to a few events outside of the area as a fan.  What follows are the top 10 memorable events I have attended either as a fan or as a worker:

10.  1990 AFC Wild Card Game, Miami vs. Kansas City – I had been a Miami Dolphins fan my whole life, and began going to see games in the northeast and Miami with a college buddy (and lifelong friend) in the late 1980s.  The team was not very good, aside from Dan Marino, Mark Clayton and Mark Duper; they could not run the ball nor play defense.  In 1990, Don Shula finally began putting together a good team, and I followed them all year long, attending the NFL Draft for the first time as Miami drafted the left side of their offensive line (Richmond Webb and Keith Sims) and traded for cornerback Tim McKyer.  Two weeks later I was in South Florida to shoot minicamp practices with my friend Dave Hack, who was the Dolphins’ Director of Video, because his assistant had to be out of town to attend a family wedding.  To say this experience, shooting practices for a pro team, was a game-changer for me is an understatement; it was then that I realized I had to have a career in sports, no matter what.  That became my goal.  During the 1990 season, I attended a pre-season game in Philadelphia and the season opener in New England as well as games in Buffalo, twice in New Jersey (Jets and Giants), and Washington, making friends with some of the players, taking photos from all over various stadiums, including from the sideline.  I wasn’t wealthy, but knowing Dave meant media passes rather than buying tickets to attend games.  Finally, the Dolphins finished the season 12-4 and made the playoffs, hosting the Kansas City Chiefs at Joe Robbie Stadium.  Because my Dad worked for American Airlines, I flew down for the game and got to cheer the Fins on to a tremendous comeback victory with Dan Marino driving the team for two touchdowns and a victory after entering the 4th quarter with a 16-3 deficit.  It was so great to finally see the team in a playoff game – and to win – in their home stadium.  That season set me on a course to work in sports, and I’ve succeeded beyond my wildest dreams.  I was in Buffalo the following weekend to see Miami fall 44-34 during a blizzard so strong that no defender could maintain footing, which was why the score was so high, but that didn’t matter after the Chiefs game.  I knew what I wanted to with my life, and I went out and did it.

9.  Game 4, 2002 NBA Finals, New Jersey vs. Los Angeles Lakers – I’m not much of an NBA fan, but I did get to work on the videoboard crew at the 
Meadowlands Arena for the 2002 NBA Finals, and what made Game 4 most memorable was seeing the Lakers hoist the NBA Championship Trophy (ugly, as it may be – it looks like a ball teetering on the rim of a garbage can) after completing a 4-game sweep of the Nets.  It’s not often you get to see team win it all, but I did on that night.  I remember Shaquille O’Neal absolutely dominating the Nets for the entire series, averaging over 36 points and 12 rebounds per game because the Nets simply had no answer to Shaq.  I still have one of the façade banners from the arena somewhere in my garage.  The following season the Nets made it back to the Finals and fared better, but lost to San Antonio in six games with the decisive game in Texas.

8.  2021 Army Navy Game – When I was laid-off, “RIF’d,” let -go, fired, whatever you want to call it, in 2010 from my job at the Meadowlands Sports Complex because Giants Stadium had closed and the arena’s last sports tenant, the New Jersey Nets, announced they were moving to Newark’s Prudential Center for two seasons before moving to Brooklyn, I began my freelance career in earnest.  One of the first freelance gigs I scored was working as a cameraman for Army football games.  I was the end zone camera operator for a few years, then their replay operator for a few years before settling in as their wireless sideline cameraman, which may be the best regular job I have ever had because it was so much fun.  Unfortunately, my client lost the Army gig after the 2019 season, but I had a tremendous decade-long run at West Point.  Thus, in early 2021, I asked my contacts at MetLife Stadium if I could direct the videoboard show at the Army Navy 
game, to be held in December.  Given my history of directing events at the stadium and my history with Army football, I was granted my request.  I worked the 2002 game at Giants Stadium, and while that was a great experience, I did not have the knowledge and respect for the military academies that I’d gained through working Army football in the 2010s, so the 2021 game meant far more to me than the 2002 game.  I remember giving a pep talk before the production meeting with the crew, something I had never done before, to emphasize the importance of the game, how some of the men and women who would be on that field either for the academies pre-game march-on or in the game itself would leave after graduation to serve our country and come home in a casket, and that the people they would focus their camera lenses on were not mere college kids, but soldiers and sailors.  I wanted them to see the faces in their lenses and realize what this game was about, and many told me that was the best pre-game speech they’d ever heard.  But we have a great crew at the stadium anyway, so I knew they’d deliver and they did, in a nearly perfectly executed show, from pre-game to post-game.  It was one of the most perfect shows I’ve ever been associated with, and the Army Navy show is a really long show, with crew in position for 3 hours before the game even starts.  I don’t know if or when the game will return to New Jersey, but I am hoping to get on the crew for this year’s game in Philadelphia.

7.  1994 World Cup Games – The World Cup is obviously one of the biggest sports events in the world, so when the United States was named host to the 1994 World Cup, I had hoped to score tickets to a game…. To no avail, at least not through the FIFA lottery system.  Giants Stadium, being the only soccer-sized stadium in the New York market, hosted numerous games, so I decided I’d try to scalp tickets at the venue, which I had done successfully in the past, never paying more than face value for numerous concerts that I’d attended.  Problem was, they wouldn’t even let drivers into the parking lot without tickets.  So I parked in a warehouse parking lot in Moonachie and walked a mile to the stadium where my beloved Italian squad (my mother’s Sicilian) took on Norway.  I scored a $50 ticket for just $30 because there 
were no fans in the parking lot looking for tickets and scalpers took a beating.  It was a great time, with the Italian crowd singing and cheering the Azzurri on to a 1-0 victory.  The German team advanced to the quarterfinals in what was expected to be an easy game against Bulgaria.  I was dating a woman from Ireland at the time and when I told her I had gotten myself into the Italian game, she begged me to take her to the quarterfinal; she being a soccer fanatic as a European.  My father’s German heritage meant that I rooted for Germany when they weren’t playing Italy, so I didn’t need convincing to execute my park-and-walk scheme one more time.  Like the Italian game, the parking lot was one giant party, with a mostly German crowd downing pints and eating German food.  We easily scored tickets just below face value and as soon as we got into the stadium, my date made her way to a pay phone to call her family in Ireland screaming with joy that she was attending a World Cup game.  That call must have cost a fortune, back then.  And that was the first time I began to realize just how much soccer meant to Europeans.  That game made her summer, though I went home quite disappointed with Germany falling 2-1 loss to underdog Bulgaria after opening the game’s scoring.

6.  2000 NFC Championship Game, Giants vs. Minnesota – the 2000 Giants were not expected to be a good team, but after a 3-2 start, they went on a tear, winning 9 of their next 11 games en route to a 12-4 record and the NFC East Division title.  Still, the media mocked them, calling them the worst division champ in the NFL.  After winning the divisional round, once again, they were mocked as the worst team to make it to a conference championship game.  That game was held at Giants Stadium, where I sat in the producer’s chair and served as music coordinator/DJ for Giants home games.  It was a really fun job, playing tunes, getting the fans into the game, coordinating TV timeout activities, and cueing legendary PA Announcer Bob Sheppard, who was one of the finest gentlemen with whom I have ever worked.  The Giants were hosting the Minnesota Vikings and were a home underdog because the Vikings had one of the most high-powered offenses in the NFL with Duante Culpepper, Randy Moss, and Chris Carter lighting up 
scoreboards all season long.  But Giants quarterback Kerry Collins played the best game of his career and the Giants defense manhandled the vaunted Viking offense.  The score was 35-0 Giants at halftime, which turned the second half into a party every time I got to play music during a TV timeout.  I remember playing “We’re Having a Party” by local favorite Southside Johnny and the Asbury Jukes at the two-minute warning and having 78,000 fans singing along.  But the best experience that day, for me, was in the postgame.  The Giants had won the game 41-0 and Bob Sheppard left at that two-minute warning to beat traffic out of the parking lot.  After the game, an NFL official brough up a page of copy for the PA Announcer to read, and since we no longer had a PA Announcer, I became the PA Announcer.  Telling fans that they could pick-up championship merchandise for, “your 2000 NFC Champion New York Giants” elicited a massive cheer; what a rush!  The fans hung on my every word when I told them to turn their attention to the stage where “NFL on Fox host Terry Bradshaw will now present the George Halas Trophy to your 2000 NFC Champion New York Giants.”  That announcement brought the house down the way Paul McCartney does when he ends Live and Let Die with a pyrotechnic fusillade.  It was so damned awesome.  I’ve never experienced anything like that before or since.

5.  The 1996 Atlanta Summer Olympic Games – Long before meeting my wife, Susan, she and her law school roommates bought tickets to attend the Atlanta games, trying to score tickets to premiere events but ultimately receiving tickets for badminton, baseball, volleyball and team handball.  By 1996, Susan and I were engaged and her friends had lost interest, so the two of us went and had a ball.  Fortunately, we got to visit Centennial Park (so named because this was the 100th anniversary of the first modern Olympics) before it was bombed and closed.  Going to the park was a fun experience in and of itself, meeting people from all around the world and trading pins.  Oh, and scalping tickets.  I managed to deal our extra tickets while also dealing some of the tickets for events we were going to attend, wheeling and dealing and working my way up to those coveted medal-round gymnastics tickets;

yup, I scored!  We did enjoy team handball and sat with the girlfriends of two of the Team USA players, who were super nice and explained the game to us to an understandable level.  Fortunately, we had left the park a few hours before the bombing and witnessed neither the carnage nor the panic that ensued when the park was evacuated.  I had always wanted to work an Olympics and still have not done so, but in truth, attending was better because I got experience multiple events in multiple venues while hanging out and partying instead of working in one venue for two weeks.

4.  2019 PGA Championship – I serve as a freelance video news journalist for a company based in London, and they send me to championship-level events and press conferences.  They sent me to my first golf tournament, the 2016 PGA Championship in nearby Springfield, NJ at the Baltusrol Golf Club.  It was a great time, covering the tournament for the entire week, but I was new to covering golf and spent the week learning as I went.  They next sent me to cover the 2018 U.S. Open at Shinnicock Hills Golf Club in the Hamptons, which was equally memorable to my 2016 PGA Championship experience.  But when I was assigned to the 2019 Championship at Bethpage Black, I was now a multiple-major veteran.  But what really made that experience better than my previous major tourney experiences was that I received a photgrapher’s lanyard and was permitted to work “inside the ropes” to cover the tournament.  Though I couldn’t shoot video on competition days because television had exclusive video rights on the course, I could take pictures.  Further, a vendor I know at Sony was on-site loaning camera gear and gave me a camera that shoots great photos and video.  As a result, I did my usual work, getting hours of footage on the three practice 
days for my client as well as post-round interviews with dozens of golfers through the competition, I also managed to shoot some 1,600 photos on the course over the 4 days that I had the camera.  What’s more, Brooks Koepka, one of my favorite golfers, won the Championship, his fourth major in two years (he won the Open a year prior at Shinnicock) in dominating fashion and some of the other golfers gave great quotes about him.  It was a really great week that left me looking forward to the 2020 U.S. Open at Winged Foot and the 2022 PGA Championship at Trump National.  Unfortunately for me, the pandemic meant no media at Winged Foot and the PGA’s decision to go woke moved the PGA Championship away from Trump National to somewhere in the Midwest.  Missing those two majors makes me appreciate the week I spent at Bethpage even more.

3.  Super Bowl XLVIII – Yes, the game itself was terrible, with Seattle destroying Denver by a score of…  well, I don’t even remember.  I remember the Broncos were down 3 touchdowns at halftime but thinking that with Peyton Manning, the Broncos could still come back; then Percy Harvin took the second half kickoff and ran it back for an 87 yard touchdown.  How do I remember that detail of the game?  I was a cameraman for the MetLife Stadium videoboard show; the 50-yard line game camera operator, in fact, and that kick return was the hardest play to cover, panning to my right to follow the kick, the following Harvin from the east end zone to the west 
end zone, a good 120 degree pan.  I had always wanted to attend a Super Bowl, going back to when I was a kid watching those championship Miami Dolphins teams win back-to-back, but never made it.  Tickets were too expensive.  But working the game was incredible.  We were there the Thursday before the Super Bowl to build and test cameras, then Friday for rehearsals, including two fly-overs and three halftime rehearsals from the foot of the stage – we were told that anyone who had a cell phone out would be fired immediately because they didn’t want any footage out before the Bruno Mars/Red Hot Chili Peppers performance on Sunday.  On Super Bowl Sunday, our call time was 9am, and after firing up cameras again and a long production meeting, we had 5 hours to walk around and take everything in, which we all did.  To date, Super Bowl XLVIII remains the only time I ever ran camera at an NFL game.

2.  1995 Stanley Cup Finals, Game 4, New Jersey vs. Detroit – I was working for the New Jersey Devils at the time as a freelance video editor, creating content for the video board show all season long.  The Devils had made it to the Stanley Cup Finals one season after losing the 1994 Eastern Conference Finals to the New York Rangers in heartbreaking fashion in overtime in Game 7 (and I was there, at the game, crushed because I wouldn’t be working the Stanley Cup Finals).  In 1995, the Devils swept the Detroit Red Wings, four games to none, winning the clinching game four by a score of 5-2, so the
game’s outcome was never in doubt after the second period and the third period was one long, loud party.  The Devils became the state’s first major sports champion and while the Devils went back and won two more championships in 2000 and 2003, nothing beats the first time.  After the game the team hosted a party through the overnight and we all got to hoist the Stanley Cup.  I met my wife at the Stanley Cup parade a few days later.  It was my first time experiencing a championship game, and it wouldn’t be the last.

1.  2022 Kentucky Derby – Susan and I were married on Derby Day in 1997; Silver Charm won the race and is still alive today, retired at Old Friends Equine Facility in Kentucky.  Thus, for our 25th Anniversary, I decided to take
Susan to the 2022 Kentucky Derby earlier this month.  It was just a phenomenal experience.  We attended the Kentucky Oaks the day prior, so we spent two days at America’s most iconic track, chatting with people in our trackside courtyard section on the rail and at the Galt House hotel’s Conservatory bar.  And what a Derby to attend, with longshot Rich Strike winning at 80-1 odds in front of a crowd of 147,294.  The food offerings were delicious and the bourbon was flowing as all food and beverages were included in the price of the admission.  It was a phenomenal time we hope to repeat in 2024 at the 150th running of the Derby.  Hope to see you there!

Yes, I have been very fortunate in my career, which is why I really enjoy sharing my experiences with sport management students at Rutgers University, where I teach part time.  I genuinely hope that my students get where they want to go in their sports careers and exceed my experiences, and some are well on their way.  It took me decades to get to my first Super Bowl and golf grand slam events, but I’ve had students who have worked their first Super Bowl, PGA Championship and Hall of Fame induction ceremonies before they’ve graduated!  They are getting tremendous experience and building a resume before earning their degree, and that’s how college should prepare students for their futures.  But I’m not done yet.  I still hope to do some more championship-level events, including the World Series, which is the one event that has eluded me so far.

Monday, May 2, 2022

Routine Sadness Does NOT Require a Therapist

A few weeks ago, mid to late-April, it had been unseasonably cold, cloudy, and windy for a few days.  This is the time of year in New Jersey when everyone looks forward to spring and warm weather, but that weather seemed to disappear for days.

On the way to work one of those days, I had been listening to the "Seriously Sinatra" channel on my SiriusXM radio on the way to work when Sinatra's rendition of A Very Good Year came on the radio.  I immediately flashed back about twenty years ago when I was visiting my 80-something year-old grandmother who had been overcome by dementia and was, as we discovered, months from the end of her life.  During that visit, that same Sinatra song was playing on the radio in her kitchen, which was tuned to a standards station. When the song changed to the melancholy tone prior the final verse and Sinatra sang about the "autumn of the years," the aging of the song's protagonist reflecting on his life, my grandmother asked, "When are you going to settle down and get married?"  I couldn't tell her that I had married years ago and that she had met my wife and her great-grandchildren many times, that would've confused the hell out of her so there was no point in going there.

From that moment on, I cannot hear A Very Good Year without thinking of that moment with my grandmother and feeling melancholy.  And that's fine.  Occasional sadness is natural and healthy and makes you experience and appreciate happy times more intensely.

Thus, when I read the graphic to the left which had been posted by a teacher's account on LinkedIn, I winced.  How did we get to the point where kids, teens, and college students are led to believe that one needs "a counselor or therapist when feeling sad?"  Don't get me wrong, if someone has bouts of depression, they should absolutely be referred to counseling, but routine sadness?  There is absolutely no need for therapy or counseling for sadness and we should not overwhelm therapist's offices with visits from people whose presence there may be preventing people who really need therapy from getting it in a timely manner.

If you've spent any time recently visiting numerous campuses on college visits with high school students, you've probably noticed an abundance of signs posted on campus walls sending a similar message - that students need help from counselors.  It's as if they're trying to convince students that they're all depressed and suicidal.

This was certainly not the case when I was a college student decades ago.  So it came as no surprise to me that suicide rates among those under the age of 25 have spiked recently.  In fact, according to a 2016 report, the Centers for Disease Control, suicide rates are up more than 30% in more than half of America's states since 1999 and in 54% of suicides, the victim was not known to have had mental health problems.  Those rates have only continued to rise due to the isolation of the pandemic.  One must wonder, is society conditioning acceptance of suicide as routine and convincing young Americans that natural, occasional sadness is a condition that must be treated?

Imagine going through life thinking that every time you experience routine sadness you are in need of treatment.  Clearly, with suicide rates skyrocketing, it's time for America to take a look at the messaging around sadness and reconsider what is labelled as a situation in need of treatment and what is a situation that is routine and normal and passes sometimes in minutes, sometimes in hours.  The health of young America is truly at stake.

Sunday, May 1, 2022

The Mess In Ukraine

For decades, Democrats and the left along with the sports world have legitimized the Russian government and downplayed Russian aggression.

In 2008, after nearly two decades of strife and ethnic cleansing, Russia essentially took over South Ossettia, a small territory that had been part of the Republic of Georgia.  This barely made the news.

In 2012, President Barack Obama told outgoing Russian president Medvedev to pass a message to incoming president Putin that he (Obama) would "have more flexibility" in helping Russia after his re-election campaign.  Less than two years later, Putin annexed Crimea, a small peninsula in Southern Ukraine.  The world responded with useless sanctions.

From 2017 to 2021, Russia stayed within their borders.  

Within months of President Joe Biden's 2021 inauguration, however, Putin began amassing troops at the Ukrainian border.  It became obvious to anyone with a functioning brain that trouble was brewing.  

Then the 2022 Winter Olympic games began, with Putin in attendance at the opening ceremonies in China despite Russia officially being banned from Olympic competition.

Because the Olympic games take 16 days to complete, it became obvious to anyone, again, with a functioning brain that Putin would not invade Ukraine until after the Olympics.  Instead of using those 16 days to negotiate with Putin and find a way to peace, Biden spent those 16 days saying that Russia would attack "any day now," almost goading Putin.

During the last week of the Olympic games, Biden sent his vice president, Kamala Harris, to eastern Europe, where she held a press conference and praised Ukrainian president Volodymyr Zelenskyy for allegedly wishing to "join NATO."

For those, again, with a functioning brain, this was a statement akin to "poking the bear."  Clearly Putin did not want Ukraine in NATO for the same reason president John Kennedy led the United States through the Cuban Missile Crisis - Putin did not want missiles at his border.  Like he did with South Ossetia and Crimea, Putin also wanted territory in Eastern Ukraine where there were majority Russian populations.  

One must keep in mind in all of these situations that Soviet Russia resettled many areas across their border with Russians during the Cold War and beyond, setting up the situation we are in today.

Less than a week after the Olympic Games ended, Putin's Russian Army invaded Ukraine.

Now that we see what happened, where do we go from here?  That's the big question.

First, let's consider that despite more useless sanctions against Russia, European nations are still buying natural gas and petroleum from Russia.  And the Russian Ruble, which Biden mocked as "rubble" when he imposed sanctions, is actually as strong as it was pre-invasion.  Finally, the Biden Administration is wasting ridiculous amounts of U.S. taxpayer money to fund this war.  Meanwhile, the U.S. economy is suffering greatly, buried in massive inflation and plummeting GDP.

Further, the American population does not want war, though to what degree is unknown.  We known that the pink hat-wearing "Code Pink" organization that protested President Bush disappeared when Obama became president and didn't seem to mind Obama expanding wars.  They also seemed to be anti-Trump even though Trump is the only president in, perhaps, my lifetime that didn't get the Unites States into any new military conflicts. And, of course, they seemed quiet when some mentioned enforcing a no-fly zone over Ukraine, which would've meant shooting-down Russian military jets, which the rest of the American public did not seem to desire.

Of course, even during the Cold War, America never entered into direct military action against Russian troops despite the Korean War, the Cuban Missile Crisis, Bay of Pigs disaster and Vietnam War.  Thus, enforcing a no-fly zone would put the American military in an unprecedented position.

So what does America do?

I'll give you my opinion on the best option, which will likely be an unpopular option:  Team Biden needs to contact Putin immediately and tell him that he can have two eastern territories in Ukraine and that Ukraine will not join NATO.  In return, Putin must promise that he will immediately cease-fire in Ukraine and refrain from any future expansions of the Russian border.

I know I will be accused of giving into a madman, but clearly Biden allowed this to happen through his inaction and, since Europe is still funding Russia by their reliance on Russian energy, there really is no other option.  By ending the war now, lives will be saved, which is the most important thing to consider.  Further,  American taxpayer dollars will be saved, and we might be able to slow the rate of inflation and stave-off a recession.  Ukrainian refugees could return home immediately, and a fraction of the money Biden was going to spend on war could be used for humanitarian aid to help rebuild Ukraine, which would be far more useful than spending the money to further destroy Ukraine.

If there's a better option, I'd love to hear it, but after giving this much thought, I really believe this is the best option.